Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Who Stole My Son?




Ok. It's Nathanael's turn for a post all his own. I would have done it sooner, but I can't find him.  Lately, there's this boy hanging around here that claims to be my son. We've been feeding him in hopes he'll tell us what happened to our real son. 


The kid who's been posing as our son takes a shower every morning without being threatened with bodily harm. He also remembers deoderant, and even adds a splash of cologne. So we know without a doubt that this kid is not the real son.

This kid who's been posing as our son asked and received a "nice" haircut. Our real son was perfectly happy with his Mom's attempts to style ...cough ...chop his hair. He never cared to put comb to follicle, either, so we know this kid is not the real son.

This kid who has been posing as our son has been willingly practicing his music, most of time doing it without being reminded. He has auditioned and won a spot in the Bangor Youth Philharmonic Orchestra. We would be so proud of him if he were ours.

This kid who has been posing as our son begins his schoolwork every day and finishes all assignments in a timely manner. He says that he wants to get it done, so that the rest of the day is his to do with as he wants. Our real son forgets that there are school assignments at all. His papers are lost or wadded up in the back of his desk, so we know that this kid is not the real son.

This kid who has been posing as our son asked to go shopping with his Mom for "cool" clothing. Ok, if we had any doubts up till now, this would be the final thing that would blow all doubt out of our mind. Our real son hates to shop. He protests at the mere mention of shopping and sighs loudly at the entrance of each store. He shuffles disgustedly through the aisles barely able to hold back his impatience. He waits for 10.5 seconds before he asks to go to electronics. He tells you something fits and it's great even if he hates it or it's way too small just so he can QUIT shopping. So, we know this kid is not the real son.

The first photos are of the real son. But the bottom two are pictures of the impostor. One shows the impostor with his arms around his supposed sisters. The other shows him sporting his "cool" clothes. If you see the real son, tell him to call home immediately. We have someone we'd like him to meet.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Never Grow Up!

Great summer memory. If someone could just please invent a pause button that I could install in my children's backs. They are growing up at lightening speed.
And so, just because I'm feeling a bit nostalgic...
Mikayla
Nathanael
  Alana

My little sweeties when I didn't think they would ever be this grown up. :)

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Blogworthy Post in It's Own Right.


This is the post about our journey into the world of boarding school that I said before was worthy of its own post. Last year at this time we were plunging into the unknown, enrolling our eldest into Dublin Christian Academy. I could never have imagined that I would ever want this for one of my kids, nor could I have ever imagined that we could afford it. Well, we couldn't afford it. It's just that the Lord had other plans, and he made it happen. As simple as that. I always pictured our family as a close-knit home school family until graduation. God has a way of  changing minds and hearts and doing things His way.  If you were to ask Mikayla what she thought, she would probably say with all confidence that this was where God wanted her to go. I have never seen a kid throw themselves into school like she has done, scoring a 3.7 GPA while juggling sports, the role of Anne in the play "The Diary of Anne Frank", weekends on a traveling musical and drama ministry team, a chorale tour, state, regional, and then national fine arts competitions, banquets, and just general dormitory living. She has so fully embraced this school and all of its unique culture, that I can only stand by and watch in awe. And so, what was the decision for this year? In Mikayla's mind there was absolutely no question. As a matter of fact, I believe there was some frustration on her part that we would even question if sending her back was the right way to go. But her Mom is just the type that wants only the absolute best for her kids. Nothing else will do, see. So, we prayed about things. I really had a hard time thinking about the expense when she could have taken the credits that she needed at home and worked part time to save for college. But, again, God has things planned out. He worked things out for her to go, and that is that. I can only shrug my shoulders and stand back and watch. He is the one that is so obviously in control here, and although I miss her like crazy, and would kill to have that school about 300 miles closer, I am content as I watch her thrive, absorb, grow, and mature at lightening speed. Is it this way for other Mom's of teens? Do they want to have a pause button installed in their teenagers backs? I have heard it said that we as parents must work ourselves out of a job. I just expected it to take 18 years. But, why am I surprised? Mikayla has wanted to go to college since she was like 6. haha. So, there you have it. God has a plan for our sweet daughter. We just have to learn relaxation techniques. "A man's heart deviseth his way, but the Lord directeth his steps." "He that handleth a matter wisely shall find good, and whoso trusteth in the Lord, happy is he." and lastly, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." May we as parents rest in that promise of scripture. He has a plan for our children, too, as adopted children of God.

Friday, September 16, 2011

School Schmool!

Getting school books this year has been an adventure. A. They are expensive. B. I needed to try something new with our youngest because she has had learning difficulties with the traditional textbook/workbook way of doing things.  I have already worked very intensely on remedial reading with her. She is now reading on her grade level, praise be. We are still working on fluency, but for the most part, she has come a long way with that. Also, Math was so impossible. It didn't matter how I explained things, it just didn't stick. She would understand right then, but later I would have to start all over. I finally broke down and called a professional that works with dyslexic kids. After informally testing her using this person's online testing site (since her offices are in California), we found that her problems probably do not stem from dyslexia at all, but rather in auditory processing. Suggestions were made for very expensive learning centers, the closest of which is in Boston. Well, she and I would have to move there for 6-8 weeks. Hmmmm. So, I had Terry call the Lindamood-Bell Learning Centers.( I have placed a link to the right for these centers) I was emotional and panicky. In my book, I had failed her. I shouldn't have been that way, but I was. Turns out I was probably panicking way too soon. I am obviously in the wrong line of work and certainly should have gone for a Master's degree in Education. These people get $1,000.00 a week for the type of tutoring she would need. ARE YOU SERIOUS!!!???  And that was with just two hours a day. Do the math on that one! WELL, I had already figured out that she was an auditory learner. That's why I put things like Scripture or times tables to music for her, or let her listen to history on tape. So, after talking things over with these people and finding out some of what they do, researching on my own ( an ongoing endeavor ), and buying ebooks to read along the way, I decided that I would not wait to try and implement what I had learned would help her. If there comes a miraculous day when we can afford the six weeks in Boston, great, but I am not willing to wait. I also calmed down quite a bit after realizing that I was on the right track all along and understood how to do a BUNCH of stuff they do. Praise God for a wonderful, well-rounded education in education!! Thank you, BJU!
 Some of what I have learned led me to the program Earobics, a listening skills computer program made especially for  rewiring the brains of kids with auditory processing issues. We started that immediately. It's a little young, and she hates it, but I have to say, it has helped a great deal. Since, I have found a different program called Hearbuilders that I may invest in to use when we finish with Earobics. I think she will tolerate it better since it is made with an older child in mind.  All of this helped me look in another direction for curriculum as well. Teaching Textbooks for math is is what I decided to try last year. It is done on the computer. It keeps track of where the child is and reviews if they need it. She HAS to listen, and only has to do one problem at a time. She has loved it, and it has really helped her! With the informal testing, I found that she has trouble sequencing. Hmmm, no wonder she has trouble with the simplest math problem! So, we are working on that, but she is in the fifth grade for math and consistently passing each lesson without extra help. HALLELUJAH! Reading has already come up, so she is doing BJU Press Reading 5, and doing great! YAY! History she loves. Science she enjoys. Both subjects are at grade level and her grades have come up in those subjects since her reading is well in hand.  Now, the only things left to tackle are spelling, which up to this point has been a dismal failure, and Writing. She has great thoughts, but since she knows how difficult spelling is, she hates writing. I have decided to really attack the spelling weakness, and knowing what I know about how she learns best, I was able to find the All About Spelling books. It uses the Orton-Gillingham method that is used for dyslexia, but can be used for kids with other issues as well. So far, light bulbs have come on both with her and with me. Several AH HA moments. I think it's going to work. We'll see. Several of these AH HA moments occurred when I realized that I myself have some of the same problems that I apparently learned to compensate for as a child. INTERESTING!!! The same thing happened when we started working on sequencing and auditory memory. No wonder I still struggle with some things. :)Since the decision was made to attack spelling, writing will be put on the back burner for a short time.
All of this sounds like a huge problem, but we have found that with just a few minutes a day working on the problem areas, we have already been able to see a big improvement, and for the most part, she is working at grade level. Thank you, Lord! Alana is a precious gift. She is smart, and has a lot on her heart and in her mind. I am so thankful that I have found ways to help her do better in school.
Meanwhile, Mikayla is off to a wonderful start as a senior at Dublin Christian Academy. Another miraculous journey for our family worthy of its own post. Nathanael is in his first year of high school. We looked into several options for him but came back to the tried and true. A friend of mine supplied me with a complete set of curriculum that she didn't need anymore and all I had to do was order the consumable. As I was doing that, I found that Science has been updated, leaving me unable to buy the consumable workbook for the older edition that I had. That left me in a quandry.  Do I try something new, or deal with the frustration of not having some of the stuff I need in order to save money???---- I got something new. I switched to Apologia for Science. So far, he loves it. There! School Schmool! We got it under control, Dude. With God's help, that is.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

A New School Year







A new school year has begun at Upcott Manor. Nathanael is now in High School. Alana is in 5th grade. Mikayla, who was supposed to have a picture taken of herself on her first day, is a senior at Dublin Christian Academy. The way that the Lord has provided for her to go away to school has been, and continues to be, nothing short of miraculous. I continue to homeschool the other two children. We are praying that the Lord would continue to work in their hearts and lives as the 2011-2012 school year begins.

Packin' in Some Summer

 The Park Loop Road and picnic on the Green overlooking Frenchman's Bay.




 Cadillac Mountian and Sand Beach







We spent most of our summer right at home this year. Gas prices kept us from venturing much further than camp. So, last week we made a point to get away. If only for a day. Then, since we bought a park pass, we went one more day before school started.